I dont know..its a very big step, my parents wouldnt agree with this anyway Lol its but dont have to tell them. After a few years we get a divorce. There could be an alternative though...i think in holland its possible to get to live there on the basis of just a cohabitation with a eu citizen. Just registering that you stay together can be good enough i think. Yaa it is a very big step. But yaa if you cant do it its fine!!!we can just have a normal friendship and fun haha. Then ill only ask for sexual favours